I feel like I help people way too much to the point where it feels like I’ve been taken advantage of.
I know it’s selfish to ask for something in return, but sometimes it just you know feels better knowing that someone can also help you when you need help.
Another situation, I give advice to people all the time about what they should do with their relationships and things like that, but when I have a problem and I start talking about it they somehow manage to turn it around and steer it in their favor. So I end up helping them solve another problem while mine is like hanging in purgatory.
And then there’s the issue about competition. I have never pegged myself as competition, but apparently I am to some people I know. I offer someone I know some help to study for physiology class and in turn they not only get my knowledge and all my old work (because that’s what friends do I suppose), but when I’m struggling with another subject, they just shut me out. Thanks guys.
the saltwater room—owl city
And these are the days music is the only thing that makes feel better.
I usually never really make my blogs personal, because I’ve known to rant in a really bad way and then other bloggers come around and bitch at me about why I bitch about things, so I try to limit personal blogs.
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